How to Break Out of the Friend Zone

Ok, you want to know how to break out of the friend zone and I don’t blame you! I compiled a few tips that worked for me and have worked for everyone I have advised on this issue.

These tips cut right to the heart of the psychology of women and men. Follow these and you are on your way to being seen as a potential lover and nto an emotional tampon.

1. Limit your Availability.

The first instincts we have as men in love is to be as available as possible to the girl of our dreams. We want to be building some connection with her and if you are a romantic at heart this is an urge hard to resist.
However when you are always available to talk on the phone, chat online or be there for them you are not sending the signals of being a boyfriend to them!

Women want strong supportive men this is true, but not at this stage of a relationship. What you are doing now is removing every aspect of mystery about yourself and laying your mind and heart bare to them. You are also indicating you have nothing else better to do with your life than talk to them.

Counter intuitive? Yes it may seem so but this is how women’s minds work and I should know I see it ALL the time. Stop being available, don’t shut them out completely but make sure you have other things to do and get a bit of mystery to your persona!

2. Don’t Talk Too Long

Don’t get sucked into long phone conversations with her and don’t continue to text back and forth all the time.

This is a part of not being totally available and will make them want to chase YOU more.

Also if you are chatting online make sure to set your status to be away enough and don’t answer every time to prod you. You are a busy guy with his own remember, they respect this in a lover!

Reserve these kinds of exchanges for making proper time to meet with them where you can talk further (hint: sounds a little like organising a date doesn’t it?)

3. Deal with Women’s Shit.

Women are emotional, moody and often completely crazy and hormonal! They can be a mans greatest part of his life and they can be their biggest nightmare all rolled into one.

DEAL WITH IT LIKE A MAN! Women love testing men to see how they react when they are like this and you cannot act like their girlfriends and you cannot act like their brother. You must be a man and deal with it and tell them that you have things you need to sort out so you will give them their space.

How HARD is that though when you just want to comfort them because you hate seeing them sad? Stay disciplined and this will be a major part of turning the tables of being seen as a friend or a lover.

4. Don’t Tell Her Your Are Attracted to Her

Nothing turns a woman off more than being the sensitive, soft guy who just wants to be loved. Mothers tell you that girls want this only because they see you as a boy and mothers want sensitive boys who treat women with respect and need love and attention.

Women though want the opposite in many ways. They want a strong man, a secure man and a confident man. These traits are hard wired into a womans brain to find a partner who will be able to provide and take care of them and their offspring. You might not be thinking about that and nither are they but it is instinctual.

Once you are their lover you can do all the nice romantic things but until you are they are looking for stability and security … you need to be that man not someone who looks weak because of it.

Crazy right? Well this is how to break out of the friend zone and don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise. You need to NOT be a friend remember … you need to be that confident mysterious man who is a potential lover for them and then you have the edge.